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Thursday, October 13, 2011

Nonviolent Communication Principle #6

All human beings have the capacity for compassion: We have an innate capacity for compassion, though not always the knowledge of how to access it. When we are met with compassion and respect for our autonomy, we tend to have more access to our own compassion for ourselves and for others. Growing compassion contributes directly to our capacity to meet needs peacefully. ~ Miki Kashton, NVC Trainer

The New Yorker has an article about Taylor Swift this week. My musical tastes run in another direction than anything MTV covers, so I was not familiar with the unfortunate incident whereby a drunk fellow artist stormed the stage and grabbed the microphone out of MIss Swift's hands while she was accepting the 2009 Best Video award. He ranted that she should not have won right through her designated time and she lost her chance to thank people for the honor. Later that evening, another artist called Swift to the stage and gave her some of her own time, so that Swift could complete her acceptance speech. 

Through the magic of the internet, I was able to listen to an interview with Swift about the incident that happened two years ago. When asked how she recuperated after such a shaming incident, she spoke about all the caring texts and calls she received from fans, friends, family, and fellow musicians. Their compassion made the evening a wonderful memory instead. 




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